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Tuesday, December 31, 2013

How do we afford to sail? (Part 1)–By Brian

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Before sailing working 70 hour weeks…..  And After Sailing catching 70cm fish…..  Is that even the same guy?!?!?!?!?

We get asked this question a lot.  It’s definitely in the top three, right up there with storms and pirates.  And rightfully so- the average age on Delos is 27.  I being the only 30-something on board do my fair share to bump that up.

I’ll just come right out and say NO this isn’t our parents boat, we didn’t steal her, we didn’t win the lottery, and finally my favorite of all time…..  NO we’re not a wayward band with a one hit wonder that no ones ever heard of!  So how then does a random group of regular non-retired semi-adults without rich parents sail around the world?  The answer is sacrifice.  You have to want it more than anything else in the world and be prepared to give up a lot of things people think are impossible to do without.  If it was any other way I don’t think it would be worth it. 

There was once a time when I worked more than anyone should.  I had just quit my corporate job in my mid twenties and was trying to make a go of my own business.  70 hour work weeks were the norm.  My priorities were a lot different then and I lived to work rather than worked to live.  Every thought, action, and spare moment was spent on the business and how to make it grow.  It was an all consuming endeavor and I poured everything I had into it.  And guess what?  The business succeeded but at the expense of my personal relationships and quality of life.  I was not an entirely happy and healthy individual.  Maybe on the surface I seemed happy but I yearned for something else, something more. I refer to this as BS (Before Sailing).

Then one hot summer day in Seattle, which are few and far between, I ventured into the library for some forgotten reason.  A book with a beautiful blue picture of the Pacific Ocean on the cover caught my attention.  The title was something like "Cross the Ocean In Your Own Boat!”  Was it even possible to sail your own boat across an ocean?  The thought had never occurred to me.  Wasn’t this something only old-school pirates and cruise ships did?  I had done some lake sailing on my Catalina 22 and occasionally ventured out onto Puget Sound for a weekend cruise but the thought of undertaking an ocean crossing voyage blew my mind.  And this is where the quest began.  The idea of being self-sufficient and voyaging off the beaten track to exotic locations became a sort of addiction.  Suddenly a switch flipped in my head and I knew.  This is what I wanted to do.

And so the four year plan was born.  I read cruising blogs and subscribed to Practical Sailor.  I read as many cruising books as possible to figure out how much money was needed.  “The Voyagers Handbook” by Beth Leonard is a great one.  Luxurious vacations were traded for trips to boat shows.  Dinners out became dinners in and that planned new car was scrapped.  The 1997 Toyota 4-Runner would do for a few more years.  At this point every fiber of my being was dedicated to making my dream a reality.  Delos was purchased and all worldly possessions not required for sailing were sold.  Gone was the Sea-Doo, fish tank,  plasma TV’s, and weight set that was collecting dust in the garage.  It was incredibly liberating to shed all these possessions and reduce what filled a 3 bedroom house to a single car load.

The economy in the US went straight to hell in the end of 2008 and the business I’d poured my life into lost something like 90% of it’s customers within a 3 month period.  I wasn’t phased, I felt almost relieved.  The decision was made for me and everything was falling into place.  Now was the perfect time to go sailing.  Mind you, the boat wasn’t paid off and I still had a monthly mortgage but I had enough cash stashed away to get to Australia.  In fact I had my projected budget to within a few hundred dollars. The way things lined up seemed almost eerie.  Wayne Dyer would have approved.  I told myself I’d sail until I ran out of money or it stopped being fun, which ever came first.

Australia came and my savings ran out.  I found myself fairly broke (and with a boat mortgage) in the land-down-under but still with a burning desire to carry on sailing.  The last three years had been the complete opposite of my pre-sailing life.  I didn’t work at all, I just lived my dreams to the fullest.  Of course this had a cost and the balance in my accounts reflected it.  Luckily I have two awesome partners (Eric and Joe) that continued running our company in my absence.  I bought a laptop and joined back to the real world while working over the magical internet from Australia.  This time things were different though.  I promised myself I would seek balance in my life.  Not work too much, not work too little, just enough to make some cash to keep sailing.

So now that the history of how I got a boat and a mortgage is covered how do we actually afford to sail NOW?

17 comments:

  1. I'm sorry Brian, but your before picture looks like the Robert Carradine character from "Revenge of the Nerds"

    A perfect starting point for a complete transformation to cruising super hero!

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  2. Thanks for sharing Brian. My wife and I both currently are working those crazy hours of which you speak. She just sent me an IM with a link to to this blog entry because we where literally just talking about how the switch just flipped for us about a year ago and we've been saving and sailing as much as possible ever since. Thanks again for the blog and the youtube channel. Stuff like this will help get us through the next 5 years of saving to ensure we have enough set aside to meet you out there somewhere.

    Fair winds,
    Erin

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    1. Yea! Love to hear it! I remember those crazy years leading up to cruising so vividly. Oh man it's so worth it though :) Hope we cross paths someday as well to share a bottle of rum!

      Cheers,
      Brian
      S\V Delos

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  3. My jaw dropped as I read this. A few similarities from the 97 4-runner to the 22 catalina. I'm also in IT and have worked way too hard my whole life. This post gives me hope that it is possible.

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    1. Ha ha, that's awesome! I loved both my 4-Runner and Catalina 22 but am pretty happy with my current situation :) Fair Winds, and thanks so much for taking the time to read and leave a comment!

      Brian
      S\V Delos

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  5. Hey Brian I have been reading your blog and watching your videos and I have to say they are Awesome! I also have a 22 Catalina and I am sailing it on the unpredictable waters of Montana mountain lakes. My last trip out winds were gusting up to 30 knots and my rudder snapped off. I am in the process of making a new one but I am finding I want to move to bigger waters. I took your advice and I bought "The Voyagers Handbook" and it is a really great book. I was reading it and I noticed a sidebar about sailing with kids and the family sailed on a Amel Super Maramu named Delos. Is that the same Delos you purchased?
    Well I will keep reading and I always look forward to new videos.
    Thanks
    Colter

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    1. Hey Colter- OH no, at least on that one it doesn't put a hole in the boat when it comes away! That sidebar is in fact our Delos :) Her original owners bought her in France and sailed to New Zealand, then to Seattle where we began this journey. Small world isn't it?

      Best of luck finding your boat and lemme know how the search progresses.

      Fair Winds,
      Brian
      S\V Delos

      PS- watch out for those mountain squalls!

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  6. Hi Brian did you come a cross trimarans making voyages like yours im looking at Condor 40 but still not sure which one better monohull or multi?

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    1. Hey! yes, we have run across a few trimaran's. Here is a blog of some friends we met in Indonesia: http://www.sailblogs.com/member/shanghaied/?show=profile Maybe it can tell you a little about their experiences on a trimaran!

      Fair Winds,
      Brian
      S/V Delos

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  7. Fair winds!
    If you want to embed your videos on Wikimapia, drop me a line.
    5 December 2014.

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    1. Hey thanks! I know one of ours is up there already but would be AWESOME to do the rest. If you want email us at svdelos53@gmail.com and we can figure out how to work it out. Fair Winds, and thanks for the offer :) Brian SV Delos

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  8. Hi Brian. I just read your bio and found it very inspiring. While we were thinking of it you were doing it. Your photo sums it up. I windsurf and sail cats but was wanting to move up into something around a 25' trailer- sailer but have no experience in the ocean. I'm a kiwi but live in Aussie and was wondering how difficult it would be to sail up the east coast ie Whitsundays etc. And what would your advice be to learn about it, ie read books like you did. All the best Liam

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    1. Gday Liam!

      Thanks for checking out the blog! Real happy to hear you enjoyed it. Sailing North up the coast of OZ is a great sail! It's going the other way that really sucks haha. Depending on where you are in oz I would go and check out the closest marina and start sailing there. I'm sure you will have plenty of old mates to talk to and learn from there! Fair winds man, Brady

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  9. Hey Brian,

    Love your blog and videos.
    If you ever have time I would love to hear about what actually made it out of the house and into Delos. As I start my own 5 yr plan, what will actually be useful when I am living on my boat? At this stage of ignorance, I can only think of clothes and kitchen items as being useful but there have to be more right? Any details you can remember about your transition would be thought provoking/helpful.

    Thanks for you time,
    Rusty

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